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I haven't had much of a chance to sit down and write about our experience and the effect it had on me. It's hard to put it into words.... All I'll say is that in the time I spent with you after the spanking, I felt possibly the calmest I've ever felt. I felt completely taken care of, and like I didn't have to worry about anything. I had, and still have some amazing clarity about not letting myself get caught up and paralyzed with guilt. Instead I've been able to take action in my life. I feel like a little bit better person and mother. I haven't been beating myself up for every little mistake. I've been moving forward and trying to make positive change. The session didn't fix everything, like you said, but it helped a lot. Thank you so much! I am extremely grateful to have someone like you...well more specifically, you, in my life.

Our sessions (every moment we spend together--not just the spankings), are more real than I could ever fantasize about. And that's because you are who you say you are--you truly care about us. And you leave no doubt how far you will go to help us. Having that trust in my life makes me more grateful than I can ever say.

First, I wanted to say a big Thank You! In all of my 41 years, I've literally never had someone say to me "well that's tough stuff, but you need to do (or not do) it anyway." I really had developed a bigger sense of entitlement than I had originally thought. Although I'm sorry about all of this year's wreckless antics, I'm glad they were an avenue to make me realize that living unaccountable and without the realization of consequences is no way to live at all. In all honesty, I know I don't have the ability to turn off my behavior like a light switch, but I at least have a starting point by which to work on things, and someone such as yourself that I can talk to and know will not coddle me, but offer good advice, hold me accountable, and provide consequences when needed.

Michelle, you are the entire package. A wonderful personality, a great conversationalist, a scolding specialist, and a no-nonsense spanker that is second to none. It also doesn't hurt that you are just as cute as cute can be. And as I mentioned more than once you have a hand that should be classified as a weapon. I have made a commitment to myself that I will not be disciplined by anyone else. If that means only two or three spankings a year then so be it. But I only want you as my disciplinarian. I have been doing this to long to search for anyone else. You give me exactly what I want and need.

You were so up-front and honest with me, and you were so good at explaining what you do, and how what you do can result in success. But more than that, you have the single most calming voice I have ever heard. You state on your website that you are a natural nurturer, and after having spoken to you I know this is true. There is only one thing you said that I disagree with. You said you were not a professional counselor or therapist. Ms Michelle, you can call yourself whatever you wish, but the lady I spoke with on the phone on Friday is a professional, no matter how it was learned. I would be honored to have you as a dicsiplinarian.

Yesterday I took the leap and had a session with the infamous Michelle since she was over in my neck of the woods in Los Angeles, California. I had heard about her and I was immensely curious, and, admittedly nervous, about whether her spankings could match the legendary qualities I have read so much about. Since I have lately been an inconsiderate bastard to good people of late, I was eager to be held accountable for my actions and ultimately be forgiven for them. Three swats in and I knew I was in very, very deep trouble. And that was just with her hand. From her earlier scolding that was eloquent and specific to my infractions and the pain she was able to deliver with that hand, I was bawling within a couple of minutes. I can't believe how fast and easily she broke me down. She used a hairbrush to seal the deal, and I was rendered helpless over her lap. As fierce as the punishment was, she was very much in tune to how I was responding and stopped a few times to remind me to slow my breathing down and take deeper breaths, as I was beginning to hyperventilate. After I did so, she would continue with the spanking until she was satisfied I had paid my moral dues in full. Afterwards, she was comforting and loving. I felt safe, warm, and cared for as she stroked my hair and held me close, reminding me over and over again that I was forgiven. The pain and guilt that had been eating away at me for months vanished into the nothingness and for the first time in a very long time I felt something other than the dread and anxiety that had left me seriously contemplating suicide as an acceptable way out of my problems. We sat and talked for the remainder of the session about anything and everything, ending our time together with an immensely enjoyable conversation. If you are serious about getting a real spanking that will leave you humbled, loved, forgiven, and renewed, then I can't recommend Michelle strongly enough. My deepest thanks to her, and my sincere hope that those who need the same thing I did will someday find her and know her discipline.

Hi Michelle, before my weeks starts to get hectic, I wanted to send this note to thank you for our visit - definitely several firsts for me: 1) talking about spanking with another female - I have only spoken with males about spanking, 2) spanking for real and not role play, 3) I did not control the session, 4) spanking by a professional, 5) back to back next day spanking, and 5) spanking by a woman. As I drove back yesterday afternoon, it got me to thinking of how my spanking was similar to a deep tissue massage - painful, yet therapeutic and cathartic after it is over. I go to a great confident massage therapist who knows how to push me to my boundaries for the most efficacious result and it is well worth it. Similarly, you displayed great competency and I believe you pushed me to a boundary I needed to get the best result. (From my recent L.A. trip)

I am happy that I was able to get my first spanking from you. This session was perfect for what I needed. I know that you told me a few times before the session started about how close you got to someone during a spanking. I wasn't quite sure what you meant, but I definitely understand now. I felt like you took a real interest in me and cared about not just the spanking itself but what was going on with me. I really appreciated that. (From my recent Maryland trip)

If things start going back to where they were, and if you don't mind, I'll just call you right away. Knowing that I can do that without feeling like I've failed is very important. I was causing myself a lot of stress thinking that this has to get better forever after just one session. That's the goal, but if not, there's comfort in knowing what to do about it. I'd rather have a maintenance spanking, than another punishment spanking. Again, hopefully I won't need either, but refuse to go back to the same behavior mode. I can't thank you enough Michelle, and I mean that sincerely. I was definitely on a path of self destruction and unfortunately taking those I care about along with me. Thanks again for the wake up call. (From a recent visit with a female client)

Your profile says it all (so does your picture) about what it is that you are about and the care and mentoring that you provide. I don't need to see any videos to get that. I think by NOT having videos or images of the spankings, you seperate yourself from the other sites or services that are out there...and believe me, I've looked. You are a unique person with a genuine care giving quality that is extremely rare. I hate to keep repeating myself but you have changed my life in the most positive way...and in record time. Who would have thought that after only meeting you two times, you would have such an impact on me and how I perceive myself? I thank you and I think everyone around me will benefit from it also.

The reason I write this is because I think you should know what went on in my head. I hated that you made me lay down and rest after but I needed it. I needed to relax and stop for a few seconds. How did you know when to stop? How did you know I needed to rest after? I didn't know that. Talking after was good. I needed to reconnect and see forgiveness in your eyes. I did. You are the best Michelle. I want to thank you for not stopping when I was not ready. You have a gift. That was not the part I wanted to share mostly though. I wanted you to know that through the pain of every bump along the way. I felt a calm I have never felt. I was at peace. All my stress was gone. I could have slept. I felt like I was on a calming drug. My racing thoughts were gone. No worry either. And the amazing thing is that I am still feeling calm. I am relaxed. (College Age Female)

Incredible because you really didn't know me going in to the session. You had nothing to go on but you read me and the mom in you came out. You sat with me, talked with me to get some kind of idea what I was about, and disciplined me accordingly…I felt so emotional when I was leaving, I didn't want to go. You have given me a lot to think about for the next few months and inspired some new ideas for making goals and self accountability. I really, really hope to see you again, but if I don't ever get the chance to I want to say thank you for what you've done and know that you have a positive influence in people's lives. (Chicago trip)

Your spirit and demeanor was loving and gentlle. I could hardly
believe that you could keep control over your lap like you did..but you
did.....your hand spanking was so intense....it took my breath away...it forced
me to think about during it really why I was being spanked....it wasn't due to
curiosity only..really little to do with that actually...it was more
acknowledging that I believe that it is effective in disciplining myself into
higher achievement and more efficiency in my goals...it was righting the
ship..I know the a real spanking is intense and at times will
bring a feeling of desperation and true helplessness that I had not ever felt
before

You have everything going for you that a naughty boy like myself looks for in a disciplinarian. You are very nice to look at, very comfortable to be with with, and you give a good old fashioned bare bottom spanking. (NJ trip)

I really loved the nurturing approach - it allowed me to totally relax
and trust you, which is why I feel that I could have been
spanked really severely. You have a really lovely approach that I
really relate to. (NJ trip)

This was the first time I experienced corner time as well and it made a real impact on me. Standing there awaiting my punishment while you lectued me made me feel like a bad boy waiting to be spanked by his mother. Your lecture also made it so real as well. The points duing the lecture where you got a bit more stern really heightened my anticipation. I really like it when you get firm duing the lecures. It puts me in a place where I feel I'm answering to mom, who's not very pleased with my behavior. (NJ trip)

I see you as a lot more than a disciplinarian. I remember one time visiting you, and you told me that you had told one of your daughters that you counseled people, and that is how I have come to view you, and that is as a counselor. I truly do value all the advice you have given me. I know that I would have gained a lot from seeing you even without the spankings. The spankings seem to kind of reinforce what you say.

I came from Sweden to meet Michelle. It's several thousand miles away and a
17 hour trip (door to door) but it was totally worth it. It sounds a bit
crazy to go on such an journey after reading her web page, some mails and a
few online chats but what I had read told me that she will be exactly what I
need. When we met I told her about my problem and we discussed a way
forward. They next day I found myself standing in the corner and then over
her lap to emphasize the discussion we had. Her hand can surely sting and
the hairbrush really hurt. It was a proper spanking to drive the point home.
She is a wonderful caring person who can be strict but it was always for my
own good. We had a long talk afterwards and on the flight home I sat on a
sore bottom. Michelle is exactly like described on her web page. If you just
want a quick spanking then go somewhere else. If you want caring discipline
that will help you to become a better person then I highly recommend
Michelle. It's like counseling including getting your bottom tanned and a
motherly hug afterwards

Michelle delivered everything she said she would, a REAL disciplinary spanking, scolding, consoling and genuine caring for my well-being.

I was lucky enough to meet Michelle on her trip to Chicago this past week and the time we spent together was very beneficial for me. Michelle took the time to listen to me and help me sort through some of the problems I have been having lately that are of my own making. I had spent some time chatting with her online getting to know a bit about what she does and how she helps people. When we actually met face to face I was very pleased to find out that Michelle was exactly what I expected her to be, a very professional, capable, and maternal disciplinarian...I would encourage anyone who feels that they can benefit from real maternal discipline to contact Michelle and find out for yourself.

I have been spanked by many women in my lifetime, but I have never been disciplined until I met Ms. Michelle. Her little hand stings like a bee, and I received several OTK spankings including one delivered by her fingertips alone. It was so powerful that I thought I was being punished with a paddle!

I am grateful to have met her, proud to call Her my Disciplinarian, and lucky to have found myself in the purple corner.

She is incredible. I was fortuante enough to meet her some time back and it was one of the MOST incredible times I've ever had. She has a very quiet authoritative way about her. There is no need for her to raise her voice, as her demeanor inspires you to follow her orders....especially when she flashes her smile. She has a very soft touch, until which time as she decides it's time for you to FEEL her authority. At that point, she can be relentless is ensuring you learn whatever lesson it is that she wants you to learn. However, rest assured that this lesson is for your own good, and will only do you well in the future. She is extremely easy to talk to, and very non-judgemental. Not enough can be said in praise to her. Talk to her and you'll see....

I definitely did not expect it to hurt so much. Even your hand over my jeans hurt. But when you pulled down my jeans and underwear and began spanking my bare bottom, I was in a little shock at how much it hurt. At first I really wanted you to stop but I’m glad you didn’t. I truly needed a real life spanking, and you certainly know how to give one. And once the shock wore off of how much you can sting my bum with just your hand, then came the belt. OOWWWW!!! I was definitely not expecting that to hurt as much as it did. But again, I’m learning to accept that as part of the real spanking. The experience has created an odd duality for me. On the one hand I really would like to be spanked by you again when I need it. On the other hand, I fear that same spanking. I suppose this is exactly the way it should be.

...I am a woman with a family to take care of, two jobs and missing discipline, guidance and clarity and direction in my life and Ms. Michelle gave me a spanking to get my life back on track..the spanking is REAL, along with scolding and a lecture and when I remember this spanking I do not think twice about my responsibilities. This was the best experience and hardest spanking I have ever had and I do believe I have better clarity in my life at this time...will I go back to Ms. Michelle..yes, without a doubt!

....the spankings are REAL, the lectures are REAL, and the connection is REAL. I live over five hours away from her, and she would be worth the trip if it were five times as long. She is concerned with helping ME work through MY problems, and she has been an effective and caring disciplinarian to me, and much more. She is the absolute proof that there is more to an effective spanking than the ability to swing a hairbrush. Visit her and you'll see the real difference...

...if you are in need of a disciplinary spanking, then Michelle is a great person to see. Be warned though that this is not a play spanking. It is a spanking that is real and definitely hurts and may very well make you cry....

...She didn't waste any time getting into the punishment. She spanked just like she warned me she was going to "fast and hard". After a couple minutes my bottom began to really sting...

...it was the best spanking experience I have ever had, hands down. I
will certainly be making a return visit...

...remember what it was like to be scolded by your mother, when she really knew what was best for you,and you were still a little kid who didn't know much
of anything? That's how a spanking/scolding from Michelle made me feel...

...I highly recommend Michelle for those looking for a genuine domestic discipline experience. I found her extremely responsive to inquiries, and very flexible regarding scheduling. There was certainly no point where I felt like we were "on the clock." She was concerned with making sure I got the discipline I needed, not with how long the session lasted...

...her use of scolding and cornertime mixed with actual corporal punishment is the most effective i have ever experienced...

"This was without a doubt the hardest handspanking I have ever received.....ever. The hairbrushing after wards nearly had me in tears. But the whole time she made me feel like she really cared about me, like she was spanking me because she really wanted me to be a better person. I couldn't sit for 3 days afterwards. I will definitely be seeing her again very soon."

...If I had to sum it up in one sentence, I think I have better clarity in my life right now. Things that, for lack of a better word, keep me blocked for weeks, months, years from getting them done have been a lot easier. Usually, I can rationalize anything and keep myself from doing what I need to do. I thought that the physical aspect of the spanking would be the main inhibition from getting back into the old rut I was in. While, it's not something I will soon forget, I think the things we talked about before and after were the things that really helped me. The spanking was a way of wiping the slate clean and I could start over fresh. I guess I need something like that that is completely out of my control to help me regain control of my life.